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I love Christmas! It’s a great time of year for all kinds of reasons. I think it’s a good time to remember that other people are important in your life.

Here is a list of some simple ways to make this point (both to others and yourself):

1. When you buy a present think about the person who you are giving it to and how you might bring them some pleasure. We all have to buy stuff because it’s expected of us but that doesn’t mean we have to be mean about all our buying choices. I’ve met countless people who seem to moan about everything around Christmas. Don’t miss the opportunity to bring some pleasure into anothers life – you will be surprised how good it makes you feel to know you have done it.

2. Think about the people you send cards too. All right some of them are people you hardly ever see but that doesn’t mean its not good to remember them and wish them well. One day you might be glad that you know these people so make sure you acknowledge that now.

3. When you are at a party give some time up for those you don’t usually speak to. You don’t have to make a big thing of it, just talk to them for a few minutes. People will really appreciate that you took the time to do it.

4. Smile at people. It’s nice to have someone smile at you (at long as it isn’t creepy) so be pleasant. People get very stressed around this time of year – why not be the one who helps them feel happy and relaxed.

5. Compliment the chef. Christmas dinner can be very stressful for those who have to cook it. It’s not that it’s complicated but that you want it to be perfect. Tell the cook that it helped to make Christmas special this year and they will really appreciate it.

Have a great Christmas!

This is just the poem to read if you are struggling with your new vision. Keep going and learn that the best things in life are hard won. I’m intending to do a series of posts based on this poem over the next few weeks so please check back regularly to see where things are going. It was written for a son so it talks about becomming a man but it applies to you whatever your gender. It is really about growing into maturity.

The poem follows …

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The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyond them into the impossible
Arthur C. Clarke

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